2) TALKING TOO FAST -- worried that people will stop listening to you unless you get out something that will interest them before they leave.
3) LAUGHING AT YOUR OWN JOKES -- covering up that you aren't affected that others didn't laugh, and social nervousness.
4) SAYING "RIGHT" OR "YOU KNOW" AFTER STATEMENTS -- seeking validation that what you said was true, or saying it because others aren't.
5) STANDING WITH LEGS NOT HALF A METER APART AT LEAST -- worried that you'll infringe on other people's personal space.
6) TALKING TOO SOFTLY OR LOUD -- fear that you'll impose yourself on people and their personal space (ie: beta).. alpha males aren't afraid to project their voice.. YET, talking obviously too LOUD can also be seen as OVERCOMPENSATING. Just like guys who wear GENERIC clothes are trying to fit in, or guys who wear OUTRAGEOUS clothes are trying too hard to overcompensate. (hint: be careful with peacocking, find a style that doesn't come off this way, which can be tricky but is still very doable).. Some guys don't talk, some talk too much, etc etc.. Find appropriate balance through trial and error, which is determined through social observation.
7) MOVING YOUR HANDS AROUND WHILE YOU TALK -- trying to keep the attention of the group (sometimes can be cool, but most often a form of qualifying yourself).
8) LEANING IN *or* 'PECKING' -- too eager to talk.. NEVER lean in no matter how loud the environment is MAKE HER LEAN IN or just leave but NEVER lean in or "peck" as its also called.
9) FACING BODY/FEET TOWARDS HER BEFORE SHE EARNED IT -- trying to gain rapport with her too eagerly.
10) CHASING WHEN SHE WALKS AWAY -- hoping she'll listen. If a chick moves away from you, move your body language MORE away from her, so she'll be drawn back.. don't CHASE her.
